Love in ExileWe ache for love, but love eludes us. Out of this crisis comes so much of what it means to be human Shon Faye grew up quietly obsessed with the feeling that love was not for her. Not just romantic love: the secret fear of her own unworthiness penetrated every aspect and corner of her life. It was a fear that would erupt in destructive, counterfeit versions of the real love she craved: addictions and short lived romances that were either euphoric and